How you judge a person?

hello again.....

as compared o previous versions, this blog comes pretty early after the last one. this, u can say is may be an effect of my last blog on myself. jokes apart. just today morning this topic came to life in my wierd brain and it gave an order to body to write down my thoughts.

Ok. coming back to the topic. what exactly is the procedure u use to judge a person? it is said that the first impression is always the best impression. what all comes under first impression? look, body language, talking style etc. now comes the question, what all u conceive from looks and body language. many times looks are deceptive. u dont know who is wearing a 'mask' of a kind person. it is a human tendency to behave nice with someone with whom one has some work. so there may be a case that someone behaves nicely with u, just coz that person wants u to do something.

now lets think after the first impression. now what all things come to ur mind about the person. how and what he talks with u, about u, about people around. there is one more human tendency that when a person talks good things about u, u start thinking that the person is good. when someone says u need to improve or there is something bad about u, u may start thinking that the person is not so good. what i can say is only one thing. dont just go by the words any person says. get to the feelings of those words. decipher the feelings of the person who issaying the things about u. if its something good about u, then it may have been to show u what u r. and if its something bad then maybe that person needs u to know where u lack. read between the lines. thats a good habit.

there is one more case. the case in which u need someone's help, and seek out for it. but the person is either not willing to help or is not genuinly in a positon to help u. in this case, we are in such a great hurry of seeking help that we forget to check whether theperson is not willing to help or is genuinly not able to help. this is where u need patience. only patience can help in this condition. u need help. but think before asking for it. think that, is the person whom u r asking for help is able to help or not. if he is able to and still if he is not helping u then it wud mean that the person is not willing to help u. but its important to think first before acting. action without thought is nothing.

ok then. u need to know one last thing. keep ur senses on when u r judging a person. most important thing to know is u shud have an eye contact when talking to a person. it enables u chec whether the person is lieing or not.

phew..... enough for today. gotta go and have something to eat. otherwise i wont be in a position to judge anyone. and that will be like an illiterate person teaching how to write. so until my next blog bugs u, happy hunting. imean judging.....