Expectations!

hello once again. it took some time for this blog to get ready; coz i had my results coming on. for an engg. student; submissions, exams and results are the worst times in whole sem.

anyways i was talking about expectations. like normal student i had my expectations for the results. but i forgot tht an engg student is NOT a normal student. he doesnt hav any rights to even look like a normal student. one day one of friend had gone for medical checkup. he was asked whether he smokes. he said 'no'. 'drinkin?' 'no' then the medical person said 'then definitely drugs! u r an engg student! how can it be? no drugs, no drikin, no smokin, not possible' i mean what the hell? is evry engg student supposed to do tht? these r their expectatins.

i read a message one day. dont expect anything from life, expectations hurt. when u dont expect, evry moment is a surprise and gives u happiness. how true! has anyone thot of it ke 'y we feel hurt?' or y we feel sad? its when u dont get something u expected. this is the key. when u expect something and u dont get it, u feel depressed. but when u dont expect and u get something u just enjoy it. so never expect anything, unless u r damn sure about something.

there is one more aspect to this expectations. when u are confident, u except more. if u get what u r expecting u feel more confident in urself. otherwise u start doubting on ur own abilities, which is far worse. u shud always know ur limit, ur abilities, ur reach etc. the most important thing is, u shud not loose ur faith in urself. u must remain confident in urself. one more thing if u started doin a thing, dont look back. dont hesitate in completing it. if u leave it halfway it will destroy u more than it wud if u r not upto ur expectations. coz when u r not upto ur expectations, at least u hav completed that work. think tht u wil try more nxt time. and if possible dont keep expectations this time.