hello evryone. just a week ago, when i was watching news channel; i heard someone saying, “No comments!!” then i recognized tht we all hear this sentence fairly good no of times. what exactly someone means when he/she uses this sentence? we all must be knowing power of words. the words ‘no’ and ‘comments’ do not hav tht much effect when used individually. but when put together; it creates a great potential. apparently the sentence is negative, but it may result being a positive response. moreover these two words save u many times if u learn to use them correctly and ‘frequently’.
now the above question again. what does 'no comments' means? does it mean 'yes'? not exactly. then does it mean 'no'? again not perfect. the real potential of these words lie in its meaning. like a chameleon; the word camofalgues itself to the situation in which it is used. so i said that u should learn to use it correctly. so tht it will be effective.
why u need to use this word frequently? an old phrase says - 'practise makes man perfect.' i mean women also. so when u practise something it becomes ur habit. tht thing comes out of u, naturally. whenever u r caught up in an conflict u shud just say by reflex 'No Comment' when u wil master this u will enjoy the look on the face of the person who asked u the question.
and last but not the least:- never ever use these words again and again for same person in successive days. this will just irritate tht person and tht person's anger might just explode. when u are gonna practise this, always find a new bakra or find one having lots of patience.
one more thing: hav patience. dont loose ur patience while u r learning to use these words. this is the skill to be learnt slowly. and when someone uses same words at u just wink and ask "hav u read tht blog?"
Tuesday, March 20, 2007
Tuesday, March 6, 2007
Expectations!
hello once again. it took some time for this blog to get ready; coz i had my results coming on. for an engg. student; submissions, exams and results are the worst times in whole sem.
anyways i was talking about expectations. like normal student i had my expectations for the results. but i forgot tht an engg student is NOT a normal student. he doesnt hav any rights to even look like a normal student. one day one of friend had gone for medical checkup. he was asked whether he smokes. he said 'no'. 'drinkin?' 'no' then the medical person said 'then definitely drugs! u r an engg student! how can it be? no drugs, no drikin, no smokin, not possible' i mean what the hell? is evry engg student supposed to do tht? these r their expectatins.
i read a message one day. dont expect anything from life, expectations hurt. when u dont expect, evry moment is a surprise and gives u happiness. how true! has anyone thot of it ke 'y we feel hurt?' or y we feel sad? its when u dont get something u expected. this is the key. when u expect something and u dont get it, u feel depressed. but when u dont expect and u get something u just enjoy it. so never expect anything, unless u r damn sure about something.
there is one more aspect to this expectations. when u are confident, u except more. if u get what u r expecting u feel more confident in urself. otherwise u start doubting on ur own abilities, which is far worse. u shud always know ur limit, ur abilities, ur reach etc. the most important thing is, u shud not loose ur faith in urself. u must remain confident in urself. one more thing if u started doin a thing, dont look back. dont hesitate in completing it. if u leave it halfway it will destroy u more than it wud if u r not upto ur expectations. coz when u r not upto ur expectations, at least u hav completed that work. think tht u wil try more nxt time. and if possible dont keep expectations this time.
anyways i was talking about expectations. like normal student i had my expectations for the results. but i forgot tht an engg student is NOT a normal student. he doesnt hav any rights to even look like a normal student. one day one of friend had gone for medical checkup. he was asked whether he smokes. he said 'no'. 'drinkin?' 'no' then the medical person said 'then definitely drugs! u r an engg student! how can it be? no drugs, no drikin, no smokin, not possible' i mean what the hell? is evry engg student supposed to do tht? these r their expectatins.
i read a message one day. dont expect anything from life, expectations hurt. when u dont expect, evry moment is a surprise and gives u happiness. how true! has anyone thot of it ke 'y we feel hurt?' or y we feel sad? its when u dont get something u expected. this is the key. when u expect something and u dont get it, u feel depressed. but when u dont expect and u get something u just enjoy it. so never expect anything, unless u r damn sure about something.
there is one more aspect to this expectations. when u are confident, u except more. if u get what u r expecting u feel more confident in urself. otherwise u start doubting on ur own abilities, which is far worse. u shud always know ur limit, ur abilities, ur reach etc. the most important thing is, u shud not loose ur faith in urself. u must remain confident in urself. one more thing if u started doin a thing, dont look back. dont hesitate in completing it. if u leave it halfway it will destroy u more than it wud if u r not upto ur expectations. coz when u r not upto ur expectations, at least u hav completed that work. think tht u wil try more nxt time. and if possible dont keep expectations this time.
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